I ended up going with a CF & FRP lip from ebay (stonecarbon2009) with the Rexpeed CF brake guides. Functional ducts, barely lower than stock. I'd say 8/10 fitment but overall satisfied. I had to drill some holes to get all the stock bolts to line up. You need to keep in mind it's a made to order item that took 3 months to get to me. Also got some Sliplo bumper scrape protection stickers (Amazon).
Not my car but where I originally saw it.
Actually, I have seen that thread before and saw the mention of APR but thought that i could not find their website for some reason. Low and behold they have this which looks like exactly what I am looking for... All I would need to do is run tubing from the ducts to the backing plate. Wish it had a matte finish.