So as much as I love the analog feel and as much as I love banging gears I came across the HPR Tuning DCT kit for the R32 GTR and decided to pull the trigger on that setup. It utilizes the BMW F80/F82/F83 7 speed DCT trans and comes with engine/trans adapter, flywheel, trans mount, modified output shaft, spacers, hardware, etc to mate the Attesa transfer case to the BMW DCT trans and retain AWD while picking up 2 extra gears, much better ratios, 1600NM torque capacity and wickedly quick shifts. My knees aren't quite what they used to be and this car is probably 80% street driven so that DCT just made sense in so many different ways.
So far I've ordered the custom 3.5" aluminum driveshaft, BMW Eshifter, HTG GCU(trans controller) and an 80k mile F82 DCT. The initial sale starts on March 15 so I'll be buying the remainder of what I need then and hopefully have everything I need ready to go by the end of the summer for a winter swap over.